Kim Kardashian is filing for divorce today NBA player Kris Humphries after two months of marriage. This is her second divorce. Kim’s elaborate fairy tale wedding aired on T.V. but due to “irreconcilable differences,” the couple has decided to split.
Going through a divorce can cause great anxiety and despair. There is no doubt that the breakup of a marriage is one of the most difficult things a person can experience. It sounds like Kim and Kris are ending as friends but that doesn’t always happen. No matter who initiated the breakup, both parties are left with a mixture of difficult emotions. When you love another person, you merge your hopes and dreams with that person. It sounds like so much went into the “Fairy tale wedding” that it may just have been too much for them and when they got down to the real essence of married life the excitement just evaporated over night.
It is possible to get something positive out of the experience though. The divorce happened for a reason, and you can learn and grow from that experience. You may come out a better stronger and happier person in the end. You will naturally have regrets, but divorce does not mean that your life is over. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
When you end the relationship there is a need for cutting the ties so you can become yourself again, so you can discover who you are without that person. So you can be that great person that originally attracted them to you. Maybe you will need to do a little work to get back to that place, when you were in balance on your own
You can get back there and you can feel good about yourself again.
Self Hypnosis can be a great way to start the process of healing and getting back to yourself again.